One Lovely Blog Award

I would like to thank Victor Writes Everything for the nomination! Honestly, it means a lot, as I am just starting to get my blog off the ground really! Victor’s blog I have found to be inspirational and just the right level motivation when I am having an off day. Go check it out!

Rules

1. Each nominee must thank the person who nominated them and link their blog in their post.
2. They must include the rules and add the blog award badge as an image.
3. Must add 7 facts about themselves.
4. Nominate 15 people to do the award!

7 Facts About Me

1. I love thrift shopping!
2. I hate texting. (Much rather talk on the phone or face to face)
3. I am in my mid twenties about to enter into my late twenties (25).
4. I am attracted to the things and people that most people are afraid of.
5. I was adopted.
6. I am a licensed therapist.
7. I’m a poet.

Nominees

1. The Queen Ke
2. Jaleesa Lashay
3. Wearing Beyonce’s Weave
4. SKYLARITY
5. Rhythm in Life
6. All Things Nzuri
7. Amber Janae
8.  Gukira
9. Good Black News
10. Countz PR
11. George L. Cook III
12. Fangirling For Good
13. Mastering You
14. Triple OT
15. The Thousand Book Project

Cre8daily

Hey Family! Have you ever wondered what it looks like to seek after the dreams you have all the while knowing that there will be obstacles, but still CHOOSING to seek still? That is the success of determination. I am so happy to introduce my brother Brik.Liam aka Jacoby. He is easily one of the most talented musicians I know, an easy laid back spirit, and a genuinely warm hearted person. I am honored that he has decided to share just a piece of his success journey with us. When I think about him I think about the success of goal chasing, dream chasing, and materialization of persistence of talents, training, and growth. He is an example of success of striving and success of following your dream. Brik.Liam was just a young extremely introverted and sheltered kid,  who had the chance to spend so much time alone, that he knows and trust himself, instincts and creative ideas more than most. This brother is an amazing individual and has a wonderful perspective to share with us.

1. What do you do? What is your job?

I am an indie artist and freelance graphic designer

2. Do you consider yourself successful?

That answer changes daily.

I recently read a Maya Angelou quote that said “Success is liking yourself, liking what you do and how you do it.” I have days many days where I don’t like what I do …well HOW I do it, in comparison to others. I also have my days where I LOVE what i do, and how I do it.

3. What are you striving for in life?

That changes daily as well. Lol. I think we all have long term goals, but the short term, even daily goals are just as important to me. But ultimately I’d have to say I’m striving to live freely and maintain some kind of joy. Everything else we want seems to be wrapped up in other people, places and objects …and that only leaves you wanting more. So if you can have joy in the midst of lack, I believe you’ll be okay.

4. When you reach your ‘ultimate goal’ what does that look like?

Happiness! A big ole smile on my face, in my element. So speaking further, being on stage, hearing the crowd singing along, recording a record that sounds exactly how it was in my head, people telling my music changes their lives or day or hearing back from a client that my graphic work was more than they dreamed.

5. Of the things you have accomplished thus far (things that were previous goals that you now have under your belt) how easy was it to achieve these things? What did that look like?

I think you can never say it’s easy while you’re IN THE MIDST of the accomplishing the goal. You find yourself struggling, and eventually it seamlessly passes you by. You don’t really notice until you reflect, most times

6. What do you want People of Color under thirty to know about success? Is it only one version?

Simply, stop comparing. There is no one who is you-er than you. And thats your superpower, not a curse. And that’s when dealing with people of color and other ethnicities as well.

7. What are you planning as your next move in life?

Just growing. Maturing in life and in all my gifts. If I can continue to do that, I’ll be good.

8. What would you have your younger self know about where you are in life right now?

“That vivid dream will actually come true. Bigger than you expect too. NEVER STOP, not even for a moment.”

9. Is there anything you would like to share with this blogs audience?

I would just like to encourage any and everyone to take action. Especially with your dreams. Fear isn’t real. But your dreams can be, if you let them. Nothing can start to happen for you, if you don’t start yourself. You have to create daily. Even if you feel like your beinning efforts aren’t that great. See as a creative savings. As you give to it, it grows and with interest.

For The Culture

Hey Family! I am so honored to have the likes of a Cultural Propellor to grace this page. When you think about how you are shaping the culture for the people, what can you say you have done? What does your brand say about you? What is your personal brand? This phenomenal woman is pushing forward the minority voices in white spaces and that alone is an ULTIMATE SUCCESS to me. Meet Ms. Jasmyn Lawson who has been doing it for the culture, pushing the limits and making sure we as People of Color are spoken for. Read a success journey that will lend you the question of “How am I expanding the minority voices in the places I am?” As people of color, I do believe that we all come to realize it’s each of our responsibility to rebel in our given space. My sister wields this power with bravery, beauty, insight, purpose, and intelligence. #SuccessofRealization  #SuccessofJourney

1. What do you do? What is your job?

I’m the Culture Editor at GIPHY, the world’s largest search engine for GIFs. I focus on making sure the content we have on our site is diverse and a great representation for the world we live in. I also spearhead initiatives centered on cultural moments and marginalized communities such as Black History Month, Women’s History Month, Asian Heritage Month, and Pride. And I create a lot of GIFS.

2. Do you consider yourself successful?

I definitiely consider myself some who has had success, especially for someone who is only 25. Im still working on building my career, but overall the handiwork I’ve put in so far seems to be paying off. There are a lot of passion projects and goals I’ve been able to accomplish, and I’m starting to get recognized for my work which is always meaningful. But the true measure of success for me has always been, “What am I doing that’s larger than myself”, especially for marginalized groups. So anytime I’m able to help others have a voice or feel seen that’s a success to me.

3. What are you striving for in life?

I don’t have an end goal. I’m more of a person who chases a passion and I like to feel fulfilled at all moments. There are so manyt things I want to do with my life. I want to have a great career in media, but then one day also want to go back to school and pursue a career in academics. U want to be a mother and a wife and leader of a family. I hope to also become a philanthropist of some sorts. I want to make sure Im always making time for fun and friends. And really just become a better version of myself along the way. Im enjoying my journey and I think checking in with myself and asking “am I enjoying this.” Is what’s super important to me. The things I strive for are continuous. I have goals, but they’re not deal breakers.

4. When you reach your ‘ultimate goal’ what does that look like?

Ha! Yeah, I don’t know what that looks like. Again, I operate on feelings. I want to feel as if whatever I’m doing at any moment is bringing me joy. If it isn’t I want o also have the discernment to move on. The thing that I’ve learned is that when I chase my passion and follow what brings me joy then accomplishments kind of just follow. So, I probably know what my ‘ultimate goal’ feels like more than what it looks like. I know it will feel greater and transcend beyond myself, that’s for sure.

5. Of the things you have accomplished thus far (things that were previous goals that you now have under your belt) how easy was it to achieve these things? What did that look like?

Nothing has been easy, but I think that’s the rewarding part. My current success has been years in the making, some of which started with dreams I had as a child or a teen. The key was just to remain passionate and consistent. And I think the reason why I don’t necessarily see what my future goals look like is that I didn’t necessarily picture the success I have now. Sure, I’ve thought about being recognized for my accomplishments, but that was never what drove me to do great work. Wanting to do work that excited me, that I enjoy, and has impact always pushed me. So yes, it was hard, but it has been worth it and I personally feel fulfilled.

6. What do you want People of Color under thirty to know about success? Is it only one version?

I would hope young people of color realize that success is personal and relative That it’s okay to want to be successful, but you need to define that for yourself and not by anyone else’s standards. If what you do fulfills you and you believe the work is meaningful then own that. It’s your to own and be proud of. There’s no set measure of rule.

7. What are you planning as your next move in life?

Again, I’m a true believer of staying in your lane. My next move is just to outdo myself. Im hoping that I can look at the work I’ve done so far and challenge myself to d better. I believe that’s what Beyoncé does too and it seems to be working for her.

8. What would you have your younger self know about where you are in life right now?

I would tell my younger self that she should feel very proud of herself. To keep grinding and working hard. That there will be low moments and a lot of moments of uncertainty but following your passion will pay off. And it’s also okay to change your mind. If there’s something your interested in that you have tried yet go for it. Expand your mind and the possibilities you never know what avenue might lead you to your goals.

9. Is there anything you would like to share with this blogs audience?

Knowing yourself is key. Yoy will got to a lot of talks, read a lot of blogs, and take a lot of advice, but none of that will matter if you don’t spend time getting to know yourself. And also there’s no such things as having it all together. Life will hit you with curve balls for sure. Five years ago I really say myself in LA working in Hollywood now the idea of that is so far from my mind. You will change you will grow, and so will your goals. But as long as you take time to check in with yourself and make sure you’re doing what’s best for you, then you’ll be okay.

My Story Doesn’t End Here

But are you ready to be inspired though? But are you? I am so happy to share another amazing woman who breaks the mold! Brianna Williams is the 11^th out of 12 children. Born and raised in the slums of New York City, Brianna believed that she would be just another statistic. Unbeknownst to her, she would be accepted into Spelman College on a full ride scholarship and begin to live her life. Brianna has had many struggles but through it all, she has learned compassion, triumph, love, hope, and hard work. Brianna is currently working on her doctoral degree at the age of 26 years old. She has created a nonprofit and has worked tirelessly to inspire those around her. Brianna is one of the many success stories and she wants everyone to know that this is just the beginning, her story doesn’t stop here! Please lean into a story of success of perseverance! My sister. My Friend. An inspiration.

1. What do you do? What is your job?

I currently have a few things that I do. I work at a mortgage company, which serves as my financial crutch. I am also a full time doctoral student studying public health, which I also consider a job all in itself. Lastly, I have a nonprofit called Queens and Kings Unite for Service.

2. Do you consider yourself successful?

I consider my life to be a success story. I set some goals for myself that all work towards my one ultimate goal. Every small victory is a success in itself for me. Growing up with 9 sisters and 2 brothers in the middle of New York City, I faced many challenges. Being homeless and of low socioeconomic status, I thought that my life would always be full of sorrow and struggle and I believed that I would never make it out of unfortunate circumstances. The odds were against me. Being accepted into Spelman College and being awarded the Bill Gates Scholarship, I knew that my life would be successful. I learned to be thankful for any small accomplishment because just surviving and making it out of poverty was a great start to many successes in my life. I would be selling myself short if I truly believed that my life alone was not a success story.

3. What are you striving for in life?

I am striving for peace and purpose. Everything that I do in life is centered on finding peace within myself and finding a purpose in my life. I believe that I was put on this earth to make a difference and to help others. One way that I ensure that I am fulfilling my purpose is through community service. I have a drive for service and a drive to help change the world. Through community service projects, I am able to be creative, implement programs, spark change, and touch many lives. I am able to inspire a generation and make those around me proud. I strive to find peace within knowing that I am working hard to leave a positive mark on earth.

4. When you reach your ‘ultimate goal’ what does that look like?

Reaching my ultimate goal means having different offices around the United States that specializes in provided community service opportunities for many different people of all walks of life. Another purpose of mine is to get my doctoral degree and help victims of sexual assault and rape. My ultimate goal would show that I have finished my degree, been published in reputable journals, and I have implemented programs in colleges and universities nation wide that are geared towards reduces instances of sexual assault and rape on campus. Last but not least, my ultimate goals will lead to me being able to care for and provide for my family. I will not be satisfied until my mother never has to work another day in her life.

5. Of the things you have accomplished thus far (things that were previous goals that you now have under your belt) how easy was it to achieve these things? What did that look like?

I believe that my goals were difficult to achieve because I put so much pressure on myself to succeed and to have many small successes. Achieving my goals meant failing, it meant changing my goals in order to figure out the direction I really wanted to go in life, it meant self-reflection, tears, depression, and most importantly, it looked like victory. It looked like satisfaction and a sense of achievement and accomplishment. Reaching your goals, big or small, gives you the motivation to continue on and to dream bigger. Achieving my goals pushed me to dream bigger and to work harder.

6. What do you want People of Color under thirty to know about success? Is it only one version?

I believe that there are many different versions of success. Each story is unique to the individual. I believe that everyone should work at their own pace and never compare their success to someone else. You never know what the next person had to do to get where they are in life. Never be afraid to fail and learn. Use each opportunity and each failure as a stepping-stone that pushes you closer to your dreams. The real success in it all is never giving up and watching yourself perserve and reach heights that you thought were unimaginable.

7. What are you planning as your next move in life?

My next move in life involves finishing graduate school and continuing working on growing my nonprofit.

8. What would you have your younger self know about where you are in life right now?

I would like my younger self to know that no matter where you are in life or what you are going through at the moment, dark times don’t last forever. Never stop dreaming and never give up. The opportunities in life are endless if you just believe in yourself.

9. Is there anything you would like to share with this blogs audience?

Everyone’s story is different and everyone has the opportunity to change a life, but sharing their story and inspiring others to be great. It is your duty to be an inspiration in anything that you do. You never know who’s watching you.

Professional Wanderer and Life Apprentice

Hey meet our newest feature! Have you ever met someone and you felt like they knew something that you didn’t know? And something in you deeply wanted to know? That’s most likely the feeling of being in the presence of someone who is a radiator of positive energy and this comes by way self acceptance and self cultivation. If you are ever blessed to meet Carinna Dennis you will know she exudes this success of self. It is a blessing to know there are still some individuals in life who are dedicated to cultivating their selves and in doing this they will give permission to other to do the same. Upon meeting individuals with this unique beauty I am prompted to remind myself if I don’t cultivate myself and grow myself I will be of no use to anyone else. Take a moment and honor our newest feature with a standing round of applause.  We dive into the success of self cultivation and choosing oneself over societies propaganda.

1. What do you do? What is your job?

I am a full time AmeriCorps member, wrapping up the last quarter of my service with City Year Detroit. I work full time in public education, bridging the gap between “what schools and teachers can provide and what students actually need”. So, In other words, I am a second voice for both my partner teacher and my students. I am a tutor. I am a mentor. I am a human study guide. I’m an advocate and motivator. I work hard to try my best to show my students that education matters, and shouldn’t be taken for granted, as it is the key to success, and personal freedom.

2. Do you consider yourself successful?

I consider success to be so many different things. For one, total independence and personal freedom. To live life comfortably in a way where if I were to get a call saying that my life was coming to a close in the next 24 hours, I’d be able to reflect with ease, knowing that I’ve done all I could to thrive to the fullest. I am not thriving yet. But, I am successful because I survived abuse and trauma, and I chose to pursue myself rather than anyone else or anything else that did not do me justice. I am here, and I still have hope in my eyes. I do have a long way to go, though.

3. What are you striving for in life?

Although I do the best I can, I still feel like I’m living my life day to day.

Right now I am drafting a plan to guide me along my journey to the levels of success that I have yet to reach, which is to thrive as an independent, autonomous, happy and healthy being, in a position to share my wealth with others.

4. When you reach your ‘ultimate goal’ what does that look like?

My ultimate goal is to become my own version of a cultural anthropologist and naturopathic healer. I want to travel all over the world and study how people have fun alone and together, love themselves and each other, and naturally care for one another. I want to study everything from the arts to nutrition. I want to discover what’s beyond my own home, and find a way to bottle up some of the things that touched my soul and gave me healing, and share it with others.

5. Of the things you have accomplished thus far (things that were previous goals that you now have under your belt) how easy was it to achieve these things? What did that look like?

As someone who previously studied social work and anthropology in college, and decided detour away from being a student to become an apprentice and learn from life rather than a text-book, it has been a harder road to achieve the tools I need to suffice me as I continue on my journey to success. I wanted to become a better communicator, and to develop my interpersonal skills while working in spaces that allowed me to get closer to humans. I’ve learned so much from working with kids and, if anything, I’ve questioned my abilities more than I ever have before. But I know that this rocky road that I chose to take is what’s best for me right now even if it doesn’t yield me the results I’m looking for, sooner rather than later it wil. Slow and unsteady wins the race too, as long as you remember to breathe and find balance.

6. What do you want People of Color under thirty to know about success? Is it only one version?

Success takes on many different forms. I want people of color to find what success means to them, not what society tries to propagate it to be. Discover who you are and what you want before you blindly buy into a dream that you did not create, that could potentially become a reality that you won’t be able to proudly claim as your own. Escaping the slave mentality is hard, but freedom is something that we don’t have privileged entitlement to, so we have to pursue. Not all those who wander are lost, so it’s ok to wander off from what you are told to walk towards, in order to find the path you need to be on in order to be closer to living life authentically.

7. What are you planning as your next move in life?

I soon hope to acquire a career lifestyle, or make my own, where I am able to travel and learn about various cultures within the U.S and abroad, and take all the unique things I’ve learned and harness it in a way that I can share with others, to motivate them to keep hiking through their barriers so that they can continue to see what lies beyond.

8. Is there anything you would like to share with this blogs audience?

Love. I’d like to share my love. *virtual hug*

The Queen Ke

When given the opportunity to highlight people you know personally that are worthy to be highlighted you just get excited! Meet my mentor! The #BlackGirlMagic right here! This #Queen right here. She is so phenomenal and just as a spectator of her life I am so proud of her!  People who have visibly accomplished much, yet still have humility and a very approachable demeanor about them are gems. Queen Ke has it! She can kick it with you and help you write a dissertation, tell you how to get the best work out in a pinch of time, teach you how to prep a meal, counsel you from broken to building, run you a list of Youtuber’s who can teach you to beat your face the best, show you boutique shops to get sophita-ratchet dresses from, and tell how to network in a way that gets things done. Complex. Black Women are multitalented. I look at my sister here and wonder how much harder can I push myself to go in life? What more can I give to others? How can I be a better individual? What truly makes me a person that is set out to change this world? Shake it at it’s core? Speak when there are things to be said and silent when I have no positive things to add?  When I see her I see the definition of success of self, the definition of Black Excellence, the embodiment of what it means to have humility, drive, and a purpose. She is my complete obsession and if you read on a bit she might become yours too.

1. How old are you?

I am a 25 year old African American woman.

2. What do you do? What is your job?

I currently am a Program Coordinator and Counselor at a Substance Abuse Treatment Agency. It is just a fancy way to say that I manage other counselor while providing treatment to a caseload of clients who display substance abuse and other diagnoses.

3. Do you consider yourself successful?

Well, I believe others think I am. I just think I am a regular person who just so happens to have done some really cool things along the way. I guess for me being successful gives the connotation that ” I have arrived.” I honestly don’t believe I have yet. Ask me that question in 25 years when you are posting your follow up series on people that you have featured. (Also, that was a STRONG hint! Just do it. I would love to know where people are years later. I think your readers would, too!) Maybe, I will define myself as successful then. Right now, everything is real new to me.

4. What are you striving for in life?

Oh, that’s simple. I am striving to leave a legacy of course. I know that sounds cliche, but it is the truth. When I reflect on my life, I mentally set it to a Beyonce sound track and the song that is on replay is ” I Was Here”. There is a lyric that goes like “I want to leave my footprint on the sands of time… I was here. I lived. I loved.” Every time I hear that part. I am like, “Yep, that’s it!” People may not remember my name, but they will remember the impact I had on their life.

5. When you reach your ‘ultimate goal’ what does that look like?

Reaching my “ultimate goal” looks like me pouring out wisdom to little black and brown faces with my gray hair and a rocking chair. I will be feeble in body, but strong in mind. When I open my mouth, nations will listen. See that is why I can’t say that I am successful. I have so much more living to do! But when I have reached my “ultimate goal”, it will be evident because day in and day out I will be investing wisdom into the coming generations.

6. Of the things you have accomplished thus far (things that were previous goals that you now have under your belt) how easy was it to achieve these things? What did that look like?

Nothing worth having is easy. It does not matter if it came to you quicker than it did others. You worked for it. So to answer your question, I worked hard for everything I have. I worked hard to get it. Now I am working hard to keep it.

7. What do you want People of Color under thirty to know about success? Is it only one version?

Success is not limited to achieving goals off your checklist. Education? I got that. Career? I got that. Car? House? I got those, too. Yet, I don’t define myself as successful. Why? Because when I leave this earth, I take nothing with me, but I leave my memory. I want to encourage my peers to not be limited to that checklist. Everything on that list will come soon enough. Become limitless my loves and leave a lasting imprint on this Earth. What will your memory be? Reflect on that.

8. What are you planning as your next move in life?

All of my next moves lead back to my “ultimate goal” of sharing life’s worth of wisdom and knowledge. I recently have applied for my associate’s license as a counselor and am applying for my Ph.D. in Counselor Education this summer. My intention is to be done with both before I hit 30. I want to use both to eventually attain a collegiate teaching position while still working full-time as a therapist. Both teaching and counseling speak to my soul. So, I have to do both. Also, I have recently started a blog. It is going to serve as my online, public diary. I think we all need an outlet from routine. It is my reminder to myself and others to live life to the fullest. So, yes. I am very excited about this next chapter of my life and want to take everyone with me. If you want to follow my journey, you can at thequeenke.wordpress.com! As I am getting my catharsis, I hope you get entertainment.

9. What would you have your younger self know about where you are in life right now?

I want little Kesha to know that her path is crooked and bumpy. It is not straight and smooth, and it never will be. Thank God for that! Can you imagine living life without unforeseen circumstances? I never would have learned anything. Nor would I have found peace from within.

10. Is there anything you would like to share with this blogs audience?

First, I want to say thank you to everyone who read this. It is truly humbling to me. Second, keep reading these features! Our people are resilient and fascinating. Other groups would like to deny it, but we know the truth. Finally, remember that others find you successful where you are now. So stop comparing yourself to others. Your crooked path was meant just for you. So, keep going!

 

At Least Meet God Halfway

How does one maintain being genuine in such a superficial world? How does one truly be unafraid to share themselves with others? Their talents? Their highs? Their pains? Their successes? Their shortcomings? If these are some questions that you feel you have asked with no answers meet Nicholas Clowney he may definitely have a few leads for you! The success of cultivating what you are meant for, not allowing anything to alter your goals, and mastering the things that have been in you from start to finish. Read about someone who has transcendent events to become all the better for it and use it as a means to motivate his next move. I am honored that Nicholas has allowed me to share his success journey with you so please read on! Meet DaBlueArtist.

1. What do you do? What is your job?

I make and sell instrumentals.. mostly EDM, Club Bangers, and Trap Instrumentals. I travel with my equipment and make music on the go.

2. Do you consider yourself successful?

In some areas, ‘Yes’ in others I would say, ‘I am still on the journey towards success’. I’ve survived many misfortunes such as rape and child abuse and I still have a good heart… I still have my happiness, I have found peace within myself and in that sense I feel success. Every day is a new opportunity for growth.

3. What are you striving for in life?

The only thing I honestly strive for in life is to live in harmony with my spirit, I strive to live without regret. The goal is to always listen to my inner voice… intuition. It has yet to fail me in the 23 years I’ve been alive. Keeping my spirit alive requires me to follow my purpose… it requires me to love well… it requires me to be disciplined… Ultimately, I can’t live a happy life without love and growth in all areas of my life.

4. When you reach your ‘ultimate goal’ what does that look like?

My ultimate goal… I envision a crowd of thousands dancing to my music in many places all over the world. My team has sold out our biggest show ever and I envision my phone full of positive messages from loved ones. I envision myself in great health. I imagine feeling completely alive.

5. Of the things you have accomplished thus far (things that were previous goals that you now have under your belt) how easy was it to achieve these things? What did that look like?

Nothing worthwhile came easy to me I discovered that my goals took much discipline to achieve. Being open to change is a must. I find many times my goals required transformation, persistence in practicing healthy habits lead to the achievement of my goals. It looked like perfecting my craft for hours every single day. It looked like studying human psychology and spirituality day after day to learn to communicate more effectively and build the relationships I needed to reach my goals. My days started at 5am and most times they would end at 5am – meaning I wouldn’t rest until I completed my task. However, I will add that overworking can be counterproductive. Balance is key and one must always keep maintenance of thyself.

6. What do you want People of Color under thirty to know about success? Is it only one version?

I believe success isn’t just about how much money one can make. I believe it is about reaching a high quality of life on multiple levels: great health, great wealth, great relationships and great memories are all types of success. Overcoming hardships is success. As long as one moves in the direction of their heart’s desire.

7. What are you planning as your next move in life?

Parties and concerts!! I want to throw lots of parties. I’m planning to buy my own equipment and throw some of the dopest parties around. I hope to see you at one of my future events. My purpose is to spread love and I just want to share that energy.

8. What would you have your younger self know about where you are in life right now?

I’d say to myself, “You always knew who you would become and you’ve always been that person. Be gentle with yourself and stop rushing to become perfect. Flow like the river, be as free as the wind all that you desire will come to you.” I was so hard on myself I couldn’t relax and enjoy my craft like when I began. I’d tell myself this to rid myself of the self inflicted misery I went through. Honestly, I feel it would’ve boosted productivity in the past years if I had acquired the wisdom earlier. I’d also tell myself,  “It’s ok to accept gifts. You are not the sum of your experiences. Your life is the sum of the decisions you make in the experiences so be mindful.. be aware.”

9. Is there anything you would like to share with this blogs audience?

If you can envision it, you can create it. Never forget to trust your instincts. Your body will let you know what’s right and wrong. There is no such thing as something for nothing and at least meet God halfway if you are waiting on a blessing. You can reach me at dablueartist@gmail.com I’m always open to expanding my circle.

The Never Settler

So we’re in for a treat! This brother here is not only driven, but sees himself purpose driven. It’s one thing to give yourself to those who love you and care about you, it’s a whole different thing to give yourself to those who don’t know you and dare to fight for them too. That’s Chidi. Chidi Wamuo is a current 3rd year medical student at Wright State University Boonshoft School of Medicine. He attended Morehouse College, and graduated with a BS in Biology in 2013.  He credits his passion to family, friends, and mentors. Get into this Well Made Man.

1. What do you do? What is your job?

I am currently a 3rd year medical student at Wright State University Boonshoft School of Medicine in Dayton, Ohio. As a third year medical student, I am assigned to various hospitals and clinics, where I am under the purview of medical doctors, nurses, and other health care professionals. I am currently about to enter my last clinical rotation (internal medicine), before finishing up and transitioning to my fourth and final year of medical school.

2. Do you consider yourself successful?

I would not say that I consider myself successful. If I use the literal definition, I have not accomplished my goals as of yet. From the outside looking in, people may see my status as a medical student as an indicator of “success”. However, the word has a different meaning for me. Academically, I do not feel I have reached my potential. Personally, there are areas that I am still trying to improve in. To me, success or perfection is a continual process, and as individuals we should never settle nor become complacent.

3. What are you striving for in life?

It is cliche, but I am striving to be the best Chidi that I can be. I must admit, when I was younger I was striving for honors, awards, wealth, and recognition. I wanted to be recognized for my efforts and gain the respect of my peers. Now, all of those things do not matter to me. They are ephemeral, and short-lived. I want to be a authentic reflection of my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, and boldly pursue what he has set before me. Moreover, I want my life to have influenced people of all colors, races, and religions to see the possibilities that are available. For me, this goal starts within my own African-American community in the United States, and my community in Nigeria. I strongly believe we must get our own houses in order before trying to save the world. I have learned to stop using the lives of others as a barometer for success. I compete with myself, and have gradually become comfortable working behind the scenes.

4. When you reach your ‘ultimate goal’ what does that look like?

When I reach my ultimate goal, I would imagine it will be pure happiness. I am not exactly sure of how living the life God has for me will manifest, but I would guess it would involve dabbling in various industries and engaging various countries around the world.

5. Of the things you have accomplished thus far (things that were previous goals that you now have under your belt) how easy was it to achieve these things? What did that look like?

It has not been easy! At times, people may look at my life and think I have had an easy road. I am the first to admit that I was born into a life that for most people would be considered advantageous. As a child, I knew that I wanted to be a scientist or physician. As time progressed, it became clear that becoming a physician was my true desire. I graduated from Morehouse College magna cum laude with a B.S. in Biology and was accepted into medical school. However, along the way, major health issues threatened my dreams. I’ve had to fight from middle school to this present day to overcome them with my mind, body, and spirit intact. I often leave the worst unsaid, but I want people to know that challenges will come and can be conquered. By the grace of God, and the examples of others I have learned how to win these battles. I am no exception, it can be done by everyone, but you must make a decision to never quit, even on your worst days. I have spent countless hours reading, studying, praying, and strategizing. In a sense, you have to make your goals your profession. A true professional works daily on her or his craft.

6. What do you want People of Color under thirty to know about success? Is it only one version?

I want people of color to know that it does not matter where you come from or what you were born into. If you dream something bigger or brighter for yourself, you can achieve it. The key once you achieve your goals is to set another one, and also help those that are coming up behind you. We must support each other. We must be proud of our history (but not become arrogant). We must strive to rid this world of oppression…passionately, but peacefully.

7.What are you planning as your next move in life?

Up next for me is graduation in May of 2018!! This upcoming year I will be applying for a residency position in my medical specialty. It will be surreal to see the letters MD behind my name next year, but those letters will be carried with humility. I am excited to see what city I will call home for the next chapter in my life.

8. What would you have your younger self know about where you are in life right now?

Your mind is your greatest weapon. Victories are won and lost in the arena of your mind. Take the time to strengthen it, for when trials come, you will be able too overcome them. Never be afraid to ask for help.

9. Is there anything you would like to share with this blogs audience?

Words and thoughts have power. What you believe and speak will impact your life either positively or negatively. Once you have made the decision to better your life, find a mentor. He or she does not necessarily have to look like you, but their wisdom and experience can connect you with what you need. Finally, what has been the most important factor in my life is my God, Jesus Christ. I am not trying to proselytize, but I am trying to testify to what has helped me. Never be afraid to embrace other cultures and people. Our world needs more understanding and education on the diversity of its inhabitants. If you have any questions or comments, feel free to contact me!

Culture By Way of The Spirt

 When you think of success do you think about what you have and what degrees you hold? Or do you think about the journey and how you inspire people? Do you think about how you are and how you became to be such a resilient person on this day? Well, this sister challenges me to get more in touch with who I am and how it is I will choose to live my life. She has broaden my lens of self care by the very nature of her displaying her self love and earnest desire for others to grow as well. Give this phenomenal sister your ear for a moment and honor our newest definition of success. The success of self love and self care.

1. What do you do? What is your job?

I am an artist, writer and speaker who shares her story and life lessons on self love and healing in the hopes that it may help inspire or ignite the flame in someone else. I believe that the world changes one person at a time and loving myself changed my life so beautifully that I wish this love on everyone else.

2. Do you consider yourself successful?

Yes, I consider myself very successful the reason being is that I am finally doing what I feel is my passion and life calling. So, to come to a point where I have the courage and confidence to be myself and no longer allow fear to hold me back feels like the greatest success of all. It can only go up from here!

3. What are you striving for in life?

I wouldn’t say that I am striving towards anything so much as I am focused on living passionately in the moment. I am listening to my heart and intuition on a daily basis and letting God do the rest. What I want most is to be myself and stay open to the magic of life everyday.

4. When you reach your ‘ultimate goal’ what does that look like?

My ultimate goal looks like me working for myself and loving the life I have been blessed to create. Everyday that I can do what I want is the best day of my life! Oh and a dope crib in Brooklyn full of plants and my family is a dream.

5. Of the things you have accomplished thus far (things that were previous goals that you now have under your belt) how easy was it to achieve these things? What did that look like?

Finding confidence, loving myself, speaking my truth and being authentic took years. Years of facing my past and purifying my soul and holding on to Divine Love in the face of my own darkness. It wasn’t easy and I am still on my journey, but it is so so worth it.

Starting my YouTube channel took a year and a half because I felt nervous (I couldn’t even look at the camera at first haha). Also, I didn’t feel spiritually ready to share with others, so that took time too. I had to be patient and become a living testimony for myself.

6. What do you want People of Color under thirty to know about success? Is it only one version?

I want you to know that you define your own success. Stop using other people’s success as a marker for your own. If you wake up happy to be who you are and do what you do, then you are successful. Material things will come and go, but success is a feeling. I think that there are 7 billion versions of success. One for each of us! Oh and being a person of color means that you are of a Divine Legacy. Reach back to your roots and let your Blackness help your on your success journey. We are intelligent, amazing, and loving people. So dope.

7. What are you planning as your next move in life?

My next move is to write books, host and attend conferences, and QUIT MY JOB! For now I am patiently speaking on YouTube and I have a Yoga event coming soon, so I am excited. Also, building my brand SpiritedxKulture is essential.

8. What would you have your younger self know about where you are in life right now?

I would tell that girl stay focused. Life can get messy and you will feel lost. That’s okay. Never give up on following your heart and trying all the things you want to try even if friends or family don’t understand you. This is your life and you will only be happy if you explore everything that you want. Don’t worry about being judged! We are spinning on a planet in the middle of nowhere; its not that serious! Do ya thang.

9. Is there anything you would like to share with this blogs audience?

I want to say thank you for your presence. I believe that you are a light and if you spend time getting to know your true nature, you will be amazed at how bright you are. You are special and the world needs you. Face your fears, Face yourself and Be Free! Much love! -Spirit

Rose From Concrete

Hey Y’all!  I am back with another young Person of Color Under 30 to be featured and I am so happy you want to join in this celebration! Jaleesa Lashay like most New Yorkers is known to always speak her mind and has established herself as a true mover and shaker within entertainment industry. Her variety of experiences, including but not limited to press junkets, on-air gigs red carpet events on air personality and media correspondent. A true rose from concrete, Jaleesa hails from the South Bronx and currently resides in Los Angeles, where she serves as a senior correspondent and associate producer for BlackTree TV. She also serves as an on-air host for the Empire Aftershow. Not to mention this well sought after woman graduated from Spelman College in Atlanta with a B.A. in English Literature. To watch her footage, view the interviews section of JaleesaLashay.com.  Please get all the way into her success journey. 

1. What do you do? What is your job?

I currently work two jobs. I work in global communications for a major brand. I am also an entertainment reporter here in Los Angeles.

2. Do you consider yourself successful?

No. I don’t consider myself successful, but I am certainly on the right track. Success means different things depending on the individual, but for me success is tied to ownership. Economic independence and ownership of my career – I’m certainly not there yet, but I am very happy with my career and personal life.

3. What are you striving for in life?

I’m still figuring that out, as I grow as a woman — especially as a black woman, but at the moment I am striving for happiness, a healthy marriage, financial wealth, and economic independence. I am very happy and have a healthy relationship, but it will take longer to gain the financial wealth and economic independence that I strive for. I want to make an impact in black communities, especially the ones similar to how I grew up in the South Bronx, and I’m not there yet.

4. When you reach your ‘ultimate goal’ what does that look like?

Total independence. I want to build my financial wealth, so that I am able to take care of myself and do not have to rely on a paycheck from a company. It is also important that I maintain my peace and happiness while doing so. My relationship is important to me, so maintaining happiness within my personal life, while achieving total independence and freedom of my career….that’s the ultimate goal.

5. Of the things you have accomplished thus far (things that were previous goals that you now have under your belt) how easy was it to achieve these things? What did that look like?

NOTHING was easy. NOTHING comes easy. It’s funny you ask this, because social media makes everything look so easy. People see the “glam” and assume that things just come naturally, but they don’t. I’ve worked VERY hard over the past few years at both careers, and achieving goals in each field was a result of that. I work 6-7 days a week. I have a demanding corporate job on top of an always on entertainment career. I edit all of my footage. Let’s just say I bust my ass.

6. What do you want People of Color under thirty to know about success? Is it only one version?

I want people of color to stop being so hard on themselves. A lot of us, especially our generation are on the right track, and as long as we stop comparing ourselves to other people we’ll achieve our goals. PRIORITIZE. PRIORITIZE. PRIORITIZE. Take ahold of your finances. Be smart, and you will achieve success, whatever that is for you.

7. What are you planning as your next move in life?

I’m not big on announcements before they’re finalized from a professional level, but on a personal level I am really focused on building my financial wealth. In 20 months, I’ll be completely debt-free (car, student loans, credit, etc). and I then plan to save for my home. So right now, I am focused on educating myself on investments and building long-term wealth.

From a professional standpoint, my main goal is to secure an on-air gig, so if you know of any producers feel free to send them my way!

8. What would you have your younger self know about where you are in life right now?

I would just tell her that she should be SO PROUD of herself. The sacrifices I made as a child, deciding to move away from home for college, participating in professional organizations they are all paying off. I also want her to know that she’s going to meet the love of her life at 19…I don’t think she was prepared for that.

9. Is there anything you would like to share with this blogs audience?

Be mindful of what you tolerate in life. Stop complaining. If you don’t like your job, relationship, friendships… then it’s time for a change. Let go of fear, and oh definitely visit www.JaleesaLashay.com to check out my interview footage!